A Walk in My Shoes: The lesson I got

At the very first time, like all people will think, getting marriage, having family are such an amazing, wonderful moment in life. The same goes to me. Life would be like living in a beautiful palace, and happily ever after. That’s it!

But then I just realize, life is not as simple as that. Perhaps you may spend some more times to watch this movie. A Walk in My Shoes. I like to watch movie. But this one is amazing. Warning, before you frown at me, you can just skip the inappropriate part. You know what I mean, right?! I’m sure you do.

This movie tells us about family life. Working parent, raising child, children school life, neighborhood, and some sort of that. it seems like an ordinary movie. Well, perhaps. But this is what I get at the end of the movie.

1- That life sometimes can be tougher than we ever think. Like in the movie, being a single parent.

2- Everyone may have different problem. Some have the simple, but others may have the tough one. We don’t have the right to judge, that everything goes wrong, it’s their problem. Don’t you think that we, most probably, that the one who brings such difficulty to them? Thus, it’s our responsible to help them go through all the things. That’s what I get from the English teacher here

3- One small thing I’ve found in the movie that the soldiers, when they are in the battle field, they also feel fear, afraid, and that they think about their family in the first place. Well, I think our nation leader should hear their voice.  

4- The most thing I learn that, everything happens in our life, it’s not just a coincidence. It has a reason. Like the ex-mariner in this movie. His destiny is to help the neighbor family.

5- In another times, all I must say in the most of the time, one thing that we can do as a help is, we just need to listen to them. It seems simple, but truly, it might help them much. Remember! Listen to them, without judging. some people call this as empathy.  6- On top of that, I learn that become a mother, and raising child is not as easy as I think. Looking at how Cindy (the single, working mother), and also Trish, they go through with life, it is amazing! Truly, become a mom is the most amazing job in the world.

7- Be proud of your children, put the trust in them. coz it can pull out of themselves the best thing they can do. Be right there, when they are in need.  

Finally, as the closing remark (uhhukkk), I just wanna say… I love you, Mom!